HOW ARE OUR CHILDREN?


A study just released by UNICEF says that American and British children are near the bottom of the well-being list in the world. The study was conducted using 40 well-being factors on children in the 21 economically advanced nations. If there is truth in the study, how can these conditions exist in the most affluent countries? Two of the wealthiest countries in the world are not looking after their children.

There are several predictable reactions to the study (including attacking the study). One is that the welfare systems in these two countries are not getting a fair share of resources. Another is that the education system can’t run good schools. Another is that so much attention and money goes into the wars, there’s not enough left for children. Another is that little attention is being paid to the abuse and sale of children.

There’s probably truth in all of these reactions. It is clear in our society that children are not our first priority despite our sentimentality about them.

However, all these reactions may miss the big point. Are our families doing the job for our children?

We are in an era when the first reaction to most things is to look for someone else to blame. Families have been doing this for decades with the public demand for better schools, better welfare, better daycare and so on, missing the essentials. Who can argue these are bad things? Only if they are a substitute for families doing their job for their children.

To be realistic, all these services aren’t going to get much more money or whatever they need. So it is time for families to take stock. Are our kids getting the attention, instruction and limits that they need? Or, in the money rush, are we depriving them of the essentials?

It is just possible that we have become so swept up by the glitz in life, we are not ready to slow down, take less for ourselves and give more to our kids.

So what do we do next? Let’s slow down and take stock of our families. Let’s help ourselves help our families. Let’s meet THE FAMILY CHALLENGE head on. How do we get started? Visit http://www.newhopecovenants.org/ to get focused on your family goal.

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