THE FAMILY IN OUR CLASSY SOCIETY


It’s time we get used to classes in our society because we have four big ones.

The high class is getting richer by leaps and bounds. They can buy whatever they need - be it toys or services. A few show off their wealth - most like to stay hidden because they don’t want us to know how rich they are. They are not only rich but they are powerful. In their clubs and homes they make big decisions on business and government over whom they have great leverage. A few are generous.

Our professional class is also doing well despite their complaints about regulations. They too, don’t have to worry about money, things or services. They are particularly skilled in knowing how to get the best health, education and legal services. They also dominate our universities with values that don’t necessarily support family life. These university professionals seem to love to promote the latest social, moral and belief fads.

We regular folks have our own class. We all have to work hard. We line up for the things and services that we need. We are dazzled by all the new media, high tech and modern lifestyles. Life is so busy, there is always bills and debt, with little time for fun except that one pricey holiday we try to save for.

Finally there is the lower class. These people have no financial security and little social security. Mostly, they are in hopeless binds from multiple problems. Either they decide to check out or they stagger from day to day with little hope of getting out of the swamp. The 300,000 folks left behind in New Orleans is a dramatic example. That’s a lot of people to fall through the social net.
Every community has its share of the lower class. They are known to the overwhelmed social agencies but otherwise hidden. Some, in the other classes, claim these folks deserve their situation from lack of personal responsibility. This is not true for most. An Atlanta study of multi-problem families found two-thirds of such families are highly motivated to ensure their kids get a better life.

So what do we do? Sounds like the regular folks need to do two things. First, they need to take control of their own family situations. They should get on guard against controls coming from business, government, the professions or the media. Subtly, these power sources fragment the family in the pursuit of their own interests.

Next, the regular folks need to start reaching out to their unfortunate neighbors. Families have a great power base because they are consumers, voters and audiences. As the regular folks start to regain control, they can pass on their experiences to the less fortunate.

It is time for families to take stock of what they have and what they need. The family that rediscovers itself can rediscover old fashioned friendship which is badly needed in our world.

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