Friday, May 15, 2009

DEAR MOM - TAKE A BREATH - FOR THE KIDS

The Old Family Story

  • Dad too busy at work
  • No energy at home for the kids
  • Little boys missed guy time with Dad
  • Little girls missed their time with Dad

The New Story is Very Different

  • Mom works at work, home, marriage - tries to run too fast
  • When Mom’s strung out, the family is strung out
  • Shift work doesn’t work for kids who need continuity
  • Kids are left with more freedom than they can handle

Overstressed Parents Are Trying to Raise Kids

  • Community kid culture brings questionable values
  • Kids run the schools - police patrol for drugs, like the street
  • Churches have lost their grip on family life
  • Business and government peddle their products and programs

What About the Family?

  • Needs to regroup, get a grip and take control of family life
  • Need to regain focus on the big job - raising kids
  • Shift priorities from goodies to wellness
  • Kids need to hear and feel parent values and beliefs

What About Mom?

  • Take a breath and put family first
  • Dad and kids need to stand up to the plates, rugs, money
  • Mom needs to discover her new role in a working family
  • Time for Mom to set a new family

How is your family meeting this FAMILY CHALLENGE?

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